I understand what you mean about the wip and rudeness. ive seen a little of it, most of it surprisingly not from newbies as it is on most sites. But still some from them. It is annoying to put a thread up in the help section because you need a question answered and the only respons is someone linking you to another thead that most of the time doesnt answer your question...
But i tink considering the age range, maturity levels. and personality differences on the site its not doing too bad.