I don't have a girlfriend as I fear my wife would not like it.......

As far as time for Maya goes, currently myself and my wife work in seperate towns (soon to be changing) and so what I get up to in the week is up to me. Evil laugh. When she returns here and as we are having our first child, I fear I may not have as much 'hobby' time in the future. But then, I have usually found time for gaming - the wife is just resigned to the fact she married someone who likes playing around on the PC and has long since given up bothering about it.