oh, is it a regional thing? Around here no one seems to think its that serious and it is used in programs with age ratings of quite low, such as in red dwarf, "lets get out there and T it" and RD never uses particularly bad language.... I looked at definitions and go this: n 1: a man who is a stupid fool [syn: fathead, goof, bozo, jackass, goose, cuckoo, zany] suggesting its not that bad but i also found this: 2: obscene terms for female genitals Both definitions cropped up alot Another example: twat Noun Brit, Austral & NZ taboo slang 1. the female genitals 2. a foolish person [origin unknown] Collins Essential English Dictionary 2nd Edition 2006 © HarperCollins Publishers 2004, 2006 ThesaurusLegend: Synonyms Related Words Antonyms Noun 1. twat - a man who is a stupid incompetent fool bozo, cuckoo, fathead, goof, goofball, jackass, zany, goose fool, muggins, saphead, tomfool, sap - a person who lacks good judgment both examples dont suggest its that bad Anyone else have opinions on it?