Ik handle Effector in hypergraph
 

With me the effector does not show in the hypergraph does anybody know how I can see it :(

it´s in front of your eyes. highlite the effector10 in the hypergraph. this is your effector. then press the insert key on your keyboard. now you are able to move the effector in viewport. you can snapmove it to the wrist joint. hit insert key again and grab the IK handle wich should be located at the wrist joint now - if that is what you want to do.

lol well that picture that shows it was not mine i just wanted to see it like that.. but I found it.. I needed to show incomming . outgoig connections