balancing the bank book, the future or the heart?? No-one's advice will help you my friend, sounds like your looking for support to split. You want to do it, do it! Job done! Toss a coin and if you feel bad at the outcome, you know where your heart stands.

don't bothered being too sentimental, it's a lonely world. Are you scared to be alone or do you really want to be with this girl, ask yourself that. You might arrive at the job and hate it, wheels within wheels, changes happen within changes, know one knows the outcome, no matter how clever.

she is being practical, women are good at that, they need to feel supported. what are you doing..??:headbang: