@ acid Honestly, at one point, I was reluctant to let anyone know I'm female and that was one of the biggest reasons, but I quit that when I realized that its unnecessary. I don't announce it but if they find out they find out and if they change on me then I'll just make myself scarce, I have enough drama, don't need it online too. @ Chirone, I don't know a single guy who doesn't have a dirty mind sooo...commendable though not the norm :x And its pronounced Jay-na-vi-ev but everybody calls me Genny or Gen