I am not sure what you want to do switch to Scale, then try to ctrl+left click on the axis you dont want to modify. It will modify only the other 2axis Haha... What i want to modify is the outer edges of the top object and have them be the same distance when you scale. If i normal scale, they end up like the top image i posted. For instance, one side may be 1.5units where as another side may be 2.5 units. I want them all to be exactly all the same. Get what i mean? or still a bit confused?