Been with my girl for about 3 to 3.5 years now. I try and devide up my time as best as i can, but we know for a succesfull relationship you need to have some personal time. I go out with some buddies to the pool hall, play some videogames, or just use maya while she does her own things.

I would say spending time in front of your computer isnt a problem if you prioritize. So if your girl walks by you wearing only her bra and tells you shes going to bed and lingers in the doorway you better be getting your ass to bed

Oh and im 22(recently turned) and my girlfriend is 24(almost 25)