If you mean clicking window > Setting/Preferences > Tool Settings, then I already tried reset all of them. I still can't get them to show up. If I open a new file and stay in the Persp. view and then use all of the tools in only that window, then any other view I use (Top, Side) will only show part of the move and scale tool and none of the rotate tool.
Nobody felt like avenging your death. Sorry.