@ben:
a: active only shows the state of a link on click and will disappaer the moment you let the mouse of the link, I want to know how to make this "stick".
And thanks for your offer and compliment
@ elephantinc:
LOL
@nitro:
I did think about the font for the header and I spend an hour browsing through fonts I was in doubt between webdings and papyrus in the end...
And I don't see that many websites with papyrus, then again most pornsites use arial fonts LOL

@ Mayaniac:
Thanks, and he is in this pose because I haven't finished him yet, what I want in the end is him standing there doing some idle movement, this is a placeholder
And your right about the eye in the header off course, but to my defense i am still filling in stuff and will touch up as i go.

"The only other thing is some of the spelling, I know it's probably a joke, but things like "want to 'no' more" seems a bit unprofessional. "
didn't see that is it still there?
And to be honest I don't want to work for an employer who can't take a joke or look past them, those jobs are boring in general as well and my motto is do what you want to do it's over before you know it, don't waste time following (unwritten)rules in how to behave or act as long as you don't harm someone else, there are enough sheep in the world who do as they are told and do meaningless ( to them) jobs all of their lives