Well after ripping out my hair I've gotten the fluid to a nearly usable point.
Sorry about the fast movement should have checked before I baked 7 gigs of sim data.
Just a test for his mug,
when he gets knocked out everything is going to be slow motion showing the coffee flying out of his cup then normal speed.

The fluid when it reacts with the ground needs work but ti will be very realistic shortly and ready for the animation.