It seems to me that the way you have tackled the merge vertices is your problem.
It sounds like you still have 2 seperate peices of geometry merged, so until that is a single bit of geometry it cant be converted to Sub-D. Undo the Merge to Center and then go ack and merge each vert individually and try again.
Chris (formerly R@nSiD)
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