Good one Pony, also, if you are using springs along with Softys, you'll wanna keep that in check as well.
So things to check in order are:
1. Goal weight values (too high, or too low)
2. Field values (i.e. is magnitude too strong?)
3. Spring stiffness (too loose? or too tight?)
Good luck!
Israel "Izzy" Long
Motion and Title Design for Broadcast-Film-DS
izzylong.com